I have a hard time internalizing how attractive I am to women. Some examples from today:
After work, I went for a quick workout at the local track. Not many people around at all, aside from a pickup soccer game.
Out of nowhere, a tall hot blonde in hot pink mini shorts shows up. She begins to stretch maybe 15 feet away, close enough to be noticed, but not so close as to be too 'familiar.' I couldn't help checking her out. She put on quite a show, stretching spread eagle with one leg over the fence, all goods made highly visible.
I thought she was there for a legit workout, but she did a quick run up the steps, and five minutes later, she was gone. I suspected she spotted me and gave me a quick chance to approach her and I didn't and she left.
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I made a quick trip to the grocery store after, feeling deflated. Now, a tall hot brunette places herself right next to me as I shop. I know AGAIN I'm supposed to approach her, but I still don't. I go to the checkout line, and the same brunette follows closely behind. But I still don't approach her.
I'm getting frustrated with myself since I am passing up so many opportunities.
How do I internalize the notion that I am extremely attractive to women?
After work, I went for a quick workout at the local track. Not many people around at all, aside from a pickup soccer game.
Out of nowhere, a tall hot blonde in hot pink mini shorts shows up. She begins to stretch maybe 15 feet away, close enough to be noticed, but not so close as to be too 'familiar.' I couldn't help checking her out. She put on quite a show, stretching spread eagle with one leg over the fence, all goods made highly visible.
I thought she was there for a legit workout, but she did a quick run up the steps, and five minutes later, she was gone. I suspected she spotted me and gave me a quick chance to approach her and I didn't and she left.
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I made a quick trip to the grocery store after, feeling deflated. Now, a tall hot brunette places herself right next to me as I shop. I know AGAIN I'm supposed to approach her, but I still don't. I go to the checkout line, and the same brunette follows closely behind. But I still don't approach her.
I'm getting frustrated with myself since I am passing up so many opportunities.
How do I internalize the notion that I am extremely attractive to women?