What's the deal - by: NilDesperare

So does anybody know the deal with chicks giving you literally all the signals then flaking when you try and meet up? Or when you approach they have a boyfriend? Like an actual physical boyfriend that's out with them?

For example at a gym I used to go to there would be this one chick that would always stare me down hardcore. So much to the point that I thought it was kind of weird, even when I was outside of the gym she would check me out 100% of the time. So I go up to her and do the whole " I know this is random etc.." and she's literally aghast that I'm even doing such a thing as talking to her in person, and she's like "oh, I have a boyfriend". I'm just like what the actual fuck.

And then recently I have this chick unabashedly flirting with me. I'm touching her and like getting in her space, screening etc. I get the number and she invites me to her house but when I text her she takes ages to respond and then when I try to set the meet up she doesn't answer. Btw this chick is married, but it's not a real marriage, it's just for benefits for both people.

This kind of stuff keeps happening to me and it makes me literally question my sanity. Anyone got any advice/wisdom in the area?