* Where you are from?
Born and raised in New York. Live in Manhattan now
* How old are you?
35. I have to be on the much older side of the spectrum here, but I suppose I carry myself pretty young. I'm coming out of a really hopeless depressing period of my life (at least, I hope I'm coming out of it). I started a business, it failed , and it completely drained me. Over that 3 year period, I lost a serious girlfriend, a bunch of money, and some of my sanity (figuratively). I was isolating, withdrawing from friends. Just trying to get back on my feet again socially and confidence-wise.
* Describe yourself, height, weight, looks, style, etc.
5'11, 175/180 --- Fitness (weight light, martial arts, sports, etc.) and diet have always been a constant in my life. One of the only things I've really had discipline in. I suppose I'm good-looking, but did not really realize that until end of college or right after. I could identify with Chris's story so much. I've had girlfriends, they've all been hot, but they are few and far between. I'll dip into session of pretty bad isolation, hiding at the gym and work, convincing myself that "girls just don't like me". I tried to attach a pic, but the fuel size was too big. I'll do an avatar later.
* What are your goals? (specific goals- I want to bang # of chicks in 2012)
I know this is not specific, but my main goal is to kill my AA, anti-social bitchness once and for all. Fuck if I'm too old, too tired, blah blah. That's being said, I want to have 2 hot bang buddies but the end of the year. I think that would be enough for me, and I would feel great.
* If you could accomplish ONE THING in the next 12 month. What would it be?
To complete Approach Anxiety Program. Develop confidence. To get completely out of the bad business session I'm in.
* How long have you been reading self-improvement stuff? Pickup/dating material?
* What are you main blockages? (if you don't know we'll figure them out)
Approach Anxiety
* What's your experience level, more importantly- what's your dating/sex life been like over the past few years?
I was really dedicated to day game / pua at a few different stages of my life (those times when I was not in a depressed isolating phase.) Throughout my life, I have gotten a bunch of lays from it, and a serious girlfriend. I have taken a boot camp with Justin Wayne and had a great crew to day game with. Chris is absolutely right. Being good at day game does not kill your AA. And, it can be just emotionally crippling. If you're a sensitive guy like me, it can be pretty rough. My social life has been non-existent the past couple years.
+ Where'd you hear/find GoodLookingLoser.com?
About a week ago, I decided I really needed a kick in the ass and cannot live like this anymore, so I started googling pus, day game, blah blah, just for motivation. I came across this site, and good lord . . . I can relate so much to Chris's writing. I'm going to do this program, and it sounds like the perfect thing to slowly get myself social again.
Born and raised in New York. Live in Manhattan now
* How old are you?
35. I have to be on the much older side of the spectrum here, but I suppose I carry myself pretty young. I'm coming out of a really hopeless depressing period of my life (at least, I hope I'm coming out of it). I started a business, it failed , and it completely drained me. Over that 3 year period, I lost a serious girlfriend, a bunch of money, and some of my sanity (figuratively). I was isolating, withdrawing from friends. Just trying to get back on my feet again socially and confidence-wise.
* Describe yourself, height, weight, looks, style, etc.
5'11, 175/180 --- Fitness (weight light, martial arts, sports, etc.) and diet have always been a constant in my life. One of the only things I've really had discipline in. I suppose I'm good-looking, but did not really realize that until end of college or right after. I could identify with Chris's story so much. I've had girlfriends, they've all been hot, but they are few and far between. I'll dip into session of pretty bad isolation, hiding at the gym and work, convincing myself that "girls just don't like me". I tried to attach a pic, but the fuel size was too big. I'll do an avatar later.
* What are your goals? (specific goals- I want to bang # of chicks in 2012)
I know this is not specific, but my main goal is to kill my AA, anti-social bitchness once and for all. Fuck if I'm too old, too tired, blah blah. That's being said, I want to have 2 hot bang buddies but the end of the year. I think that would be enough for me, and I would feel great.
* If you could accomplish ONE THING in the next 12 month. What would it be?
To complete Approach Anxiety Program. Develop confidence. To get completely out of the bad business session I'm in.
* How long have you been reading self-improvement stuff? Pickup/dating material?
* What are you main blockages? (if you don't know we'll figure them out)
Approach Anxiety
* What's your experience level, more importantly- what's your dating/sex life been like over the past few years?
I was really dedicated to day game / pua at a few different stages of my life (those times when I was not in a depressed isolating phase.) Throughout my life, I have gotten a bunch of lays from it, and a serious girlfriend. I have taken a boot camp with Justin Wayne and had a great crew to day game with. Chris is absolutely right. Being good at day game does not kill your AA. And, it can be just emotionally crippling. If you're a sensitive guy like me, it can be pretty rough. My social life has been non-existent the past couple years.
+ Where'd you hear/find GoodLookingLoser.com?
About a week ago, I decided I really needed a kick in the ass and cannot live like this anymore, so I started googling pus, day game, blah blah, just for motivation. I came across this site, and good lord . . . I can relate so much to Chris's writing. I'm going to do this program, and it sounds like the perfect thing to slowly get myself social again.