Hi,
I don't want to pick up girls at my campus because I'm scarred that my reputation will become bad (through cold approach). So I just try to talk to some girls in a more causal way for example at my class (which should be natural) or if they are near me in the library or something and see what happens.
The problem is that I developed a good instinct if a girl likes me or not. Now if I see that a girl likes me I really have the urge to ask the girl for her number, but I'm also scarred because of my reputation.
Today there was such a situation, I have a latin class and there is always a beautiful girl and today I talked to her and it seems that she likes me. I asked her if she has all the lecture notes and she asked me back "oh you don't have them? should I send it to you?" without me mentioning it. So that was a possibility for me to get in contact with her outside of collage, but I missed it because I said that I have all the notes and so on. And I know that if the latin class is finished, I will never see her again. So what should I do? I'm really not sure if I should ask she for her number at one time, maybe that's too direct. I found her on facebook. Maybe in the semester break (learning time) I should write her and say that I lost some notes or something, don't know.
What's your general opinion on this?
I don't want to pick up girls at my campus because I'm scarred that my reputation will become bad (through cold approach). So I just try to talk to some girls in a more causal way for example at my class (which should be natural) or if they are near me in the library or something and see what happens.
The problem is that I developed a good instinct if a girl likes me or not. Now if I see that a girl likes me I really have the urge to ask the girl for her number, but I'm also scarred because of my reputation.
Today there was such a situation, I have a latin class and there is always a beautiful girl and today I talked to her and it seems that she likes me. I asked her if she has all the lecture notes and she asked me back "oh you don't have them? should I send it to you?" without me mentioning it. So that was a possibility for me to get in contact with her outside of collage, but I missed it because I said that I have all the notes and so on. And I know that if the latin class is finished, I will never see her again. So what should I do? I'm really not sure if I should ask she for her number at one time, maybe that's too direct. I found her on facebook. Maybe in the semester break (learning time) I should write her and say that I lost some notes or something, don't know.
What's your general opinion on this?