I've been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years now. I love her, she's the love of my life and I'm planning to marry her, well at least I was. She is one of the hottest woman I've ever been with. She's Peruvian, she's got a smoking body and a great ass and she's beautiful, smart, funny, educated and she's a general doctor trying to get her residency to become a surgeon.
A few months ago, my 21 year old neighbor knocks on my door, I open the door and she tells me she was late for work and had left her keys in the car and it was locked. Now keep in mind I've been living in my house for 15 years and not once had we ever spoken to each other until this day. So I go to her car and try to open it with a coat-hanger. I tried several times but it was just too damn hard to reach the unlock button. I'd tell her that she needed to talk to a locksmith and I offered her a ride to work instead. She accepts my offer and I take her to work. We're talking about how it was funny that we never talked before and I told her that I had seen her at a nightclub a couple months ago, she smirks and tells me why I didn't say hi and buy her a drink. I leave her at work and think nothing of it and go back to my house.
The next night after getting out from work, I'm arriving at my door and my neighbor walks up to me and invites me out to a party with her co-workers. I declined her offer, told her I had to get up early to go to work (I lied.) she then tells me well if you change your mind text me and gives me her number. I didn't call her or text her, I just fell asleep until the next day at 12am she texted me, told me she wanted to hang out so I tell her to come over.
We were drinking beer outside of my house (my girl does not live with me btw) I begin to grab her by those fine thick legs she had and begin asking about her tattoos while touching them. Then we held hands one thing led to another and I was kissing her, touching her tits, and rubbing her pussy. She then tells me she was gonna use the bathroom and I take her inside the house. When she got out, we started making out some more and then we were naked about to have sex. I grab a condom, put it on, and the worst thing happens My boner dies, she then begins to suck my dick, tells me she wanted to do that since she was 15 years old. I was in the heat of the moment I had no time to go back for a condom, she tells me she's on birth control. So I stick it raw inside of her, bang the shit outta of her in the living room, and to be safe I pulled out and came in her face.
About a month and a half later, I see her snapchat and she has one of those first response pregnancy things and it says shes pregnant. I text her and tell her whose is it and she says I was the last person she was with. She says I'm the father. I panic. I tell her that she has to abort, that she cant have a baby. That were not a couple. She gets very defensive and tells me that she is having the baby whether I want to or not. She said "my body, my kid, my choice!" and she told me that she didn't need me and that she wasnt going to ask me for anything, not even child support. I believe her because she already has a 5 year old with her ex boyfriend and she told me that he didnt pay child support because she dont need nothing from no man. So I told her you cant be doing this bullshit, I dont want a kid from you and I blocked her out of anger. Havent spoken to her in a month.
I don't know what to do. My girlfriend wants to get married and move in with me but I just dont know if I should tell her and break her heart. Thats the last thing I want to do. My conscience is killing me and dont know what to do. What do you guys think?
TL;DR: I got my side chick pregnant, girlfriend doesnt know, what should i do?
A few months ago, my 21 year old neighbor knocks on my door, I open the door and she tells me she was late for work and had left her keys in the car and it was locked. Now keep in mind I've been living in my house for 15 years and not once had we ever spoken to each other until this day. So I go to her car and try to open it with a coat-hanger. I tried several times but it was just too damn hard to reach the unlock button. I'd tell her that she needed to talk to a locksmith and I offered her a ride to work instead. She accepts my offer and I take her to work. We're talking about how it was funny that we never talked before and I told her that I had seen her at a nightclub a couple months ago, she smirks and tells me why I didn't say hi and buy her a drink. I leave her at work and think nothing of it and go back to my house.
The next night after getting out from work, I'm arriving at my door and my neighbor walks up to me and invites me out to a party with her co-workers. I declined her offer, told her I had to get up early to go to work (I lied.) she then tells me well if you change your mind text me and gives me her number. I didn't call her or text her, I just fell asleep until the next day at 12am she texted me, told me she wanted to hang out so I tell her to come over.
We were drinking beer outside of my house (my girl does not live with me btw) I begin to grab her by those fine thick legs she had and begin asking about her tattoos while touching them. Then we held hands one thing led to another and I was kissing her, touching her tits, and rubbing her pussy. She then tells me she was gonna use the bathroom and I take her inside the house. When she got out, we started making out some more and then we were naked about to have sex. I grab a condom, put it on, and the worst thing happens My boner dies, she then begins to suck my dick, tells me she wanted to do that since she was 15 years old. I was in the heat of the moment I had no time to go back for a condom, she tells me she's on birth control. So I stick it raw inside of her, bang the shit outta of her in the living room, and to be safe I pulled out and came in her face.
About a month and a half later, I see her snapchat and she has one of those first response pregnancy things and it says shes pregnant. I text her and tell her whose is it and she says I was the last person she was with. She says I'm the father. I panic. I tell her that she has to abort, that she cant have a baby. That were not a couple. She gets very defensive and tells me that she is having the baby whether I want to or not. She said "my body, my kid, my choice!" and she told me that she didn't need me and that she wasnt going to ask me for anything, not even child support. I believe her because she already has a 5 year old with her ex boyfriend and she told me that he didnt pay child support because she dont need nothing from no man. So I told her you cant be doing this bullshit, I dont want a kid from you and I blocked her out of anger. Havent spoken to her in a month.
I don't know what to do. My girlfriend wants to get married and move in with me but I just dont know if I should tell her and break her heart. Thats the last thing I want to do. My conscience is killing me and dont know what to do. What do you guys think?
TL;DR: I got my side chick pregnant, girlfriend doesnt know, what should i do?
