Hello everyone, I am a 22 years old engineering student who wants to try something new and improve my social skills!
Being a little bit of an nerd I never felt any deep connection with or interest in the other people at school. In my isolation I learned a lot of skills like; music production, electronics, science, making etc. but a lot of things I missed, which is why I am here I guess.
Recently I have often found myself in a position where I think about; women, style, game, relationships, dating etc. to later realize the other boys talked about this stuff waaaaaaaay back, I didn't pay much attention back then but I'm beginning to realize that I'm about 7 years behind on all of this stuff, and that it's time to finally do something about it.
What do I want to do here?
1: I would like to improve my image and style, since I at the moment lack any semblance of taste when it comes to clothes, hair, shoes and "the social game" / "social status" / "social hierarchy". Basically I want to develop a character in a superficial sense.
2: I would like to improve my killer instinct, assertiveness and focus. What I mean by this is that I want to learn how to pick up signals better, how to act on these signals and create signals of my own. What really bugs me at night is knowing that I have had "chances" and that I did nothing about it. For example there was this girl I know who at the end of a party was as ready as they can get, throwing of all kinds of signals, yet somehow I did not pick up on it before it was way to late... And I wish this weren't what usually happens, some people call me Sheldon for a reason. hehehe.
3: I would like to "cure" some of my anxieties. Al tho I'm not that shy or anything, I defiantly have a couple of weak spots. I for example don't like; Pictures/video (being taken of me), social media, dancing, doing things in fornt of people I know, etc. I basically want to kill my social anxiety and get a ALPHA "core confidence", I can also see my self in the future having lectures, being on tv, talking in front of crowds, so a lot of this stuff might get handy in other areas some day.
4: I would like to be more consistent and "ready at the moment". Let's put it in thins way: When I'm in some sort of mood, people will know. I want to have the ability to "get into the zone" so to speak, being able to look and act happy even when I weren't before. Some days I feel compleatly on fire and have nothing. And I can't control it. So I want to become more emotionally consistent.
That's what I came up with now, I guess I will start with AA-program, I did my own twisted version of that one for
a while. Haha
Se ya around I guess .![:cheer:]( ":cheer:")
Being a little bit of an nerd I never felt any deep connection with or interest in the other people at school. In my isolation I learned a lot of skills like; music production, electronics, science, making etc. but a lot of things I missed, which is why I am here I guess.
Recently I have often found myself in a position where I think about; women, style, game, relationships, dating etc. to later realize the other boys talked about this stuff waaaaaaaay back, I didn't pay much attention back then but I'm beginning to realize that I'm about 7 years behind on all of this stuff, and that it's time to finally do something about it.
What do I want to do here?
1: I would like to improve my image and style, since I at the moment lack any semblance of taste when it comes to clothes, hair, shoes and "the social game" / "social status" / "social hierarchy". Basically I want to develop a character in a superficial sense.
2: I would like to improve my killer instinct, assertiveness and focus. What I mean by this is that I want to learn how to pick up signals better, how to act on these signals and create signals of my own. What really bugs me at night is knowing that I have had "chances" and that I did nothing about it. For example there was this girl I know who at the end of a party was as ready as they can get, throwing of all kinds of signals, yet somehow I did not pick up on it before it was way to late... And I wish this weren't what usually happens, some people call me Sheldon for a reason. hehehe.
3: I would like to "cure" some of my anxieties. Al tho I'm not that shy or anything, I defiantly have a couple of weak spots. I for example don't like; Pictures/video (being taken of me), social media, dancing, doing things in fornt of people I know, etc. I basically want to kill my social anxiety and get a ALPHA "core confidence", I can also see my self in the future having lectures, being on tv, talking in front of crowds, so a lot of this stuff might get handy in other areas some day.
4: I would like to be more consistent and "ready at the moment". Let's put it in thins way: When I'm in some sort of mood, people will know. I want to have the ability to "get into the zone" so to speak, being able to look and act happy even when I weren't before. Some days I feel compleatly on fire and have nothing. And I can't control it. So I want to become more emotionally consistent.
That's what I came up with now, I guess I will start with AA-program, I did my own twisted version of that one for
a while. Haha
Se ya around I guess .
