Hey fellas
So I'm a longtime lurker of the community, recently felt compelled to post hoping for some advice from some experienced guys.
I'm a casual dater, generally see a few girls simultaneously over the course of a few weeks. The problem I have is during the dry spells, where one or more of my fbs might start ghosting me or winding down their enthusiasm to continue the relationship.
What do you guys do to relieve the anxiety? Any tips? Basically what happens is I can feel little crybaby mode coming on where I want to pester these last few girls I've been seeing about continuing the relationship, obviously this is not productive or likely to yield results and yet I just feel the rejection overwhelming me and it makes me a real cunt to be around.
I know things will pick up again shortly, I have plenty of hobbies and work out a lot. I'm an introvert at heart so partying is not really an option and my current situation is very few friends with whom I have common ground where I live. I guess I'm just looking for some empathy here if this is something you guys experience and out of the box ways you might have to steam through those low periods. Thoughts and experiences appreciated
Jake
So I'm a longtime lurker of the community, recently felt compelled to post hoping for some advice from some experienced guys.
I'm a casual dater, generally see a few girls simultaneously over the course of a few weeks. The problem I have is during the dry spells, where one or more of my fbs might start ghosting me or winding down their enthusiasm to continue the relationship.
What do you guys do to relieve the anxiety? Any tips? Basically what happens is I can feel little crybaby mode coming on where I want to pester these last few girls I've been seeing about continuing the relationship, obviously this is not productive or likely to yield results and yet I just feel the rejection overwhelming me and it makes me a real cunt to be around.
I know things will pick up again shortly, I have plenty of hobbies and work out a lot. I'm an introvert at heart so partying is not really an option and my current situation is very few friends with whom I have common ground where I live. I guess I'm just looking for some empathy here if this is something you guys experience and out of the box ways you might have to steam through those low periods. Thoughts and experiences appreciated
Jake